zaterdag 28 februari 2009
lyrics:This is the place where i sit
This is the part where i love you too much
This as hard as it gets
Cause i'm getting tired of pretending im tough
I'm here if you want me
I'm yours, you can hold me
I'm empty, and achin'and tumblin, and breakin'
Cause you dont see me
And you dont need me
And you dont love me
The way i wish you would
The way i know you could
I dream a world where you understand
And I dream a million sleepless nights
I dream of fire when you're touching my hand
But it twists into smoke when i turn on the light
I'm speechless and faded
It's too complicated
Is this how the book ends -
Nothing but good friends?
Cause you dont see me
And you dont need meAnd you dont love me
The way i wish you would
The way i wish you would, ooh
This is the place in my heart
This is the place where i'm falling apart
Isnt this just where we met?
And is this the last chance that i'll ever get?
I wish i was lonely
Instead of just "only"Crystal and see-through and not enough to you
Cause you dont see me
And you dont need me
And you dont love me
The way i wish you would
Cause you dont see me
And you dont need me
And you dont love me
The way i wish you would
The way i know you could
This is the part where i love you too much
This as hard as it gets
Cause i'm getting tired of pretending im tough
I'm here if you want me
I'm yours, you can hold me
I'm empty, and achin'and tumblin, and breakin'
Cause you dont see me
And you dont need me
And you dont love me
The way i wish you would
The way i know you could
I dream a world where you understand
And I dream a million sleepless nights
I dream of fire when you're touching my hand
But it twists into smoke when i turn on the light
I'm speechless and faded
It's too complicated
Is this how the book ends -
Nothing but good friends?
Cause you dont see me
And you dont need meAnd you dont love me
The way i wish you would
The way i wish you would, ooh
This is the place in my heart
This is the place where i'm falling apart
Isnt this just where we met?
And is this the last chance that i'll ever get?
I wish i was lonely
Instead of just "only"Crystal and see-through and not enough to you
Cause you dont see me
And you dont need me
And you dont love me
The way i wish you would
Cause you dont see me
And you dont need me
And you dont love me
The way i wish you would
The way i know you could
woensdag 18 februari 2009
Oneliners from Hollywood
1) "Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake whole relationships."(Sharon Stone)
2) Honesty is the key to a relationship. If you can fake that, you're in."(Courtney Cox Monica on "Friends")
3) "I read somewhere that 77 per cent of all the mentally ill live in poverty. Actually, I'm more intrigued by the 23 per cent who are apparently doing quite well for themselves."(Jerry Garcia)-(Grateful Dead)
4) "Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is."(Barbara Bush)-(Former US First Lady)
5) ah, yes, divorce..., from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man's genitals through his wallet.(Robin Williams)
6) Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.(Billy Crystal)
7) Instead of getting married again, I'm going to find a woman I don't like and just give her a house.(Rod Stewart)
8) "On the one hand, we'll never experience childbirth. On the other hand, we can open all our own jars."(Bruce Willis)-(On the difference between men and women)
9) "And God said: 'Let there be Satan, so people don't blame everything on me. And let there be lawyers, so people don't blame everything on Satan."(George Burns)
10) "Luge strategy? Lie flat and try not to die."(Carmen Boyle)-(Olympic Luge Gold Medal winner - 1996)
11) "There are only two reasons to sit in the back row of an airplane: Either you have diarrhea, or you're anxious to meet people who do."(Henry Kissinger)-(former US Secretary of State)
12) "My girlfriend always laughs during sex - no matter what she's reading."(Steve Jobs)-(Founder: Apple Computers)
13) "My cousin just died. He was only 19. He got stung by a bee - the natural enemy of a tightrope walker."(Dan Rather)-(News anchorman)
14) "I saw a woman wearing a sweatshirt with 'Guess' on it. I said, 'Thyroid problem?"(Arnold Schwarzenegger)
15) "Hockey is a sport for white men. Basketball is a sport for black men. Golf is a sport for white men dressed like black pimps."(Tiger Woods)
16) "I discovered I scream the same way whether I'm about to be devoured by a Great White or if a piece of seaweed touches my foot."(Axel Rose)-(Guns'n'Roses)
17) "Capital punishment turns the state into a murderer. But imprisonment turns the state into a gay dungeon-master."(Rev. Jesse Jackson)
18) "My mother never saw the irony in calling me a son-of-a-bitch." (Jack Nicholson)
19) Women complain about premenstrual syndrome, but I think of it as the only time of the month that I can be myself.(Roseanne)
20) According to a new survey, women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are too judgmental, whereas, of course, men are just grateful.(Robert De Niro)
21) In the last couple of weeks I have seen the ads for the WonderBra. Is that really a problem in this country? Men not paying enough attention to women's breasts?(Hugh Grant)
22) There's a new medical crisis. Doctors are reporting that many men are having allergic reactions to latex condoms. They say they cause severe swelling. So what's the problem?(Dustin Hoffman)
23) When the sun comes up, I have morals again.(Elizabeth Taylor)
24) There's very little advice in men's magazines, because men think, "I know what I'm doing. Just show me somebody naked."(Jerry Seinfield)
25) See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time.(Robin Williams)
2) Honesty is the key to a relationship. If you can fake that, you're in."(Courtney Cox Monica on "Friends")
3) "I read somewhere that 77 per cent of all the mentally ill live in poverty. Actually, I'm more intrigued by the 23 per cent who are apparently doing quite well for themselves."(Jerry Garcia)-(Grateful Dead)
4) "Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is."(Barbara Bush)-(Former US First Lady)
5) ah, yes, divorce..., from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man's genitals through his wallet.(Robin Williams)
6) Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.(Billy Crystal)
7) Instead of getting married again, I'm going to find a woman I don't like and just give her a house.(Rod Stewart)
8) "On the one hand, we'll never experience childbirth. On the other hand, we can open all our own jars."(Bruce Willis)-(On the difference between men and women)
9) "And God said: 'Let there be Satan, so people don't blame everything on me. And let there be lawyers, so people don't blame everything on Satan."(George Burns)
10) "Luge strategy? Lie flat and try not to die."(Carmen Boyle)-(Olympic Luge Gold Medal winner - 1996)
11) "There are only two reasons to sit in the back row of an airplane: Either you have diarrhea, or you're anxious to meet people who do."(Henry Kissinger)-(former US Secretary of State)
12) "My girlfriend always laughs during sex - no matter what she's reading."(Steve Jobs)-(Founder: Apple Computers)
13) "My cousin just died. He was only 19. He got stung by a bee - the natural enemy of a tightrope walker."(Dan Rather)-(News anchorman)
14) "I saw a woman wearing a sweatshirt with 'Guess' on it. I said, 'Thyroid problem?"(Arnold Schwarzenegger)
15) "Hockey is a sport for white men. Basketball is a sport for black men. Golf is a sport for white men dressed like black pimps."(Tiger Woods)
16) "I discovered I scream the same way whether I'm about to be devoured by a Great White or if a piece of seaweed touches my foot."(Axel Rose)-(Guns'n'Roses)
17) "Capital punishment turns the state into a murderer. But imprisonment turns the state into a gay dungeon-master."(Rev. Jesse Jackson)
18) "My mother never saw the irony in calling me a son-of-a-bitch." (Jack Nicholson)
19) Women complain about premenstrual syndrome, but I think of it as the only time of the month that I can be myself.(Roseanne)
20) According to a new survey, women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are too judgmental, whereas, of course, men are just grateful.(Robert De Niro)
21) In the last couple of weeks I have seen the ads for the WonderBra. Is that really a problem in this country? Men not paying enough attention to women's breasts?(Hugh Grant)
22) There's a new medical crisis. Doctors are reporting that many men are having allergic reactions to latex condoms. They say they cause severe swelling. So what's the problem?(Dustin Hoffman)
23) When the sun comes up, I have morals again.(Elizabeth Taylor)
24) There's very little advice in men's magazines, because men think, "I know what I'm doing. Just show me somebody naked."(Jerry Seinfield)
25) See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time.(Robin Williams)
zondag 15 februari 2009
Do we really need to talk?
a relationship beyond words
Her: "Honey, we need to talk about our relationship,"
Him: "I thought you’d never ask!" or, "I’ve been dying to share my feelings about our life together, and I especially want to hear how you feel about us and how you want me to change,"
Girls, women, ladies.. dream on, get realistic. The five words a man dreads most are, "Honey, we need to talk." He definitely won’t give the answer I wrote above. It’s more likely he will be very quiet and looks at you like he’s hearing a avalanche coming down.
Do you know that talking about your relationship has more of a chance of making it worse than making it better?
Women talk, a lot most of the time and women mostly want to talk about their relationship when they’re upset and want to feel better. Men mostly don’t want to talk (except when they're among male friends and it's about women or sports) because talking won’t make them feel better. In fact if his partner starts about wanting to talk about the relationship, it will make him feel worse. But when the man doesn’t talk, most women will say something like, "It didn’t work, because he can’t communicate. He gets picky, defensive, or impatient. He’s just not interested." And in the end both end up feeling disconnected.
(Disconnection lies at the heart of every argument , sometimes it's just better to empty a box of chocolates ladies)
Do we talk about the relationship or not?
Often, despite your best intentions, talking about your relationship has more of a chance of making it worse than making it better.
The reason women want to talk about their relationship is because disconnection makes them feel anxious and isolated and afraid. Paranoid sometimes. And women want a deeper connection with their partner and want to start talking instead of stalking.
The reason men don’t want to talk about it is because her dissatisfaction with him makes him feel like a failure. On a deeper level, he feels ashamed.
So in the end his shame is too great to allow him to understand her fear, and her fear keeps her from seeing his shame. And when both try to show their feelings of vulnerability to each other, by talking and not talking, all what will happen in the end is sharing disappointment and heartache.
Without both doing anything wrong your relationship can be doomed. If you don't understand in what way fear and shame can make you drift apart, make you feel disconnected from one another. Understanding each other’s vulnerabilities and learning how to manage them will give you a new perspective on your relationship, based on both points of view, which can lead to compassionate connection and a loving connection that goes beyond words.
People don’t get disconnected because they have poor communication; they have poor communication because they are disconnected.
Her: "Honey, we need to talk about our relationship,"
Him: "I thought you’d never ask!" or, "I’ve been dying to share my feelings about our life together, and I especially want to hear how you feel about us and how you want me to change,"
Girls, women, ladies.. dream on, get realistic. The five words a man dreads most are, "Honey, we need to talk." He definitely won’t give the answer I wrote above. It’s more likely he will be very quiet and looks at you like he’s hearing a avalanche coming down.
Do you know that talking about your relationship has more of a chance of making it worse than making it better?
Women talk, a lot most of the time and women mostly want to talk about their relationship when they’re upset and want to feel better. Men mostly don’t want to talk (except when they're among male friends and it's about women or sports) because talking won’t make them feel better. In fact if his partner starts about wanting to talk about the relationship, it will make him feel worse. But when the man doesn’t talk, most women will say something like, "It didn’t work, because he can’t communicate. He gets picky, defensive, or impatient. He’s just not interested." And in the end both end up feeling disconnected.
(Disconnection lies at the heart of every argument , sometimes it's just better to empty a box of chocolates ladies)
Do we talk about the relationship or not?
Often, despite your best intentions, talking about your relationship has more of a chance of making it worse than making it better.
The reason women want to talk about their relationship is because disconnection makes them feel anxious and isolated and afraid. Paranoid sometimes. And women want a deeper connection with their partner and want to start talking instead of stalking.
The reason men don’t want to talk about it is because her dissatisfaction with him makes him feel like a failure. On a deeper level, he feels ashamed.
So in the end his shame is too great to allow him to understand her fear, and her fear keeps her from seeing his shame. And when both try to show their feelings of vulnerability to each other, by talking and not talking, all what will happen in the end is sharing disappointment and heartache.
Without both doing anything wrong your relationship can be doomed. If you don't understand in what way fear and shame can make you drift apart, make you feel disconnected from one another. Understanding each other’s vulnerabilities and learning how to manage them will give you a new perspective on your relationship, based on both points of view, which can lead to compassionate connection and a loving connection that goes beyond words.
People don’t get disconnected because they have poor communication; they have poor communication because they are disconnected.
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